Join the Society

Every season has a threshold. This is yours.

Itsuki Society is a private cultural society for women in their fifth season. Membership is by application — not to keep anyone out, but to make sure every woman inside is truly met.

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Every application is read personally. We reply within 48 hours.

Why we curate

An invitation, not a sign-up.

Trust, depth and real conversation only grow where people are gathered with care.

We keep the Society intentionally considered. Not for the sake of exclusivity, but because the women who join Itsuki are sharing something real: a change of career, a change of body, a change of who they thought they would be.

Curation means we read, we listen, and we think about how each woman will meet — and be met by — the others. It is the quiet work that makes Itsuki feel safe, intelligent and deeply human.

We are not looking for volume. We are looking for depth, quality and genuine belonging.

The process

Four quiet steps.

From the moment you apply to the moment you are welcomed, every step is personal. No algorithms, no automated decisions.

You apply

Tell us who you are and where you are in your season. Take your time — there are no right answers.
We read

The founders read every application personally. You will hear from us within 48 hours.
We welcome you

If Itsuki feels right for both of us, you receive a personal invitation and everything you need to begin your chosen membership.
Or we hold your place

When a tier or city circle is full, we keep your application on our waitlist and write to you as soon as a place opens.

Selection

What we look for.

Honesty

Truth over polish. We want to know where you really are, not what you have achieved.

Curiosity

About yourself, about other women, and about what the next chapter could hold.

Generosity

What you know, what you carry, and what you are willing to share with others.

Presence

Showing up in your own way — as a voice or as a listener — with kindness and respect.

We do not look for titles, followers or a perfect story.

The application

Apply for membership.

This is not a sign-up form. It is a conversation starter. We read every application personally, and respond within 48 hours.

1You

2Your season

3Community

4Membership

5Confirm

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Section one

Tell us who you are.

The basics — so we know where you are in the world and how to reach you.

First name * Please enter your first name.

Surname * Please enter your surname.

Email address * Please enter a valid email address.

City * Please enter your city.

Country * Please enter your country.

Age range * Please select your age range.

What do you do? Your work, your role, or however you would describe yourself professionally right now.

How did you find Itsuki?

Section two

Where you are right now.

These questions have no right answers. We are not looking for accomplishments — we are looking for honesty, self-awareness and presence. Take your time.

How would you describe where you are right now — in work, in life, in yourself? * A few honest sentences. No performance necessary. Please share a few words — this is the heart of your application.

What drew you to Itsuki? What are you looking for that you have not found elsewhere? * Please share what brought you here.

What does the fifth season mean to you, personally, right now? Itsuki was built on this idea. We are curious what it means in your own words.

Section three

You in community.

Itsuki is a society in the truest sense — it is shaped by every woman in it. We want to understand what you bring and how you show up.

What would you contribute to this community? What do you know well, or carry, that others might benefit from? * Please share what you would bring to the community.

How do you tend to show up in community spaces? *

An active voice — I share, contribute and start conversations A thoughtful listener — I absorb, reflect and contribute when it feels right It depends on the space and the season I am in

Please select one option.

Which areas feel most alive for you right now? Select all that resonate.

Identity & reinvention Work, career and purpose Body, perimenopause & health Relationships, family shifts and loneliness Creativity, culture & intellectual life Emotional depth & personal growth Financial independence & second chapters

Section four

Choose your level of access.

There is no wrong choice. Each tier is complete in itself, and you can always move deeper when the moment is right.

Digital

€149/yr

Editorial, selected sessions and community access. For women beginning their Itsuki journey.

Circle

€490/yr

The full community, live sessions, masterclasses and every channel. The heart of the Society.

Private

€1,000/yr

Intimate, high-touch and curated. One-to-one sessions, personal introductions and founding access.

Please select a membership tier to continue.

Would you like to join a city circle? City circles are small, in-person gatherings in your city. We open them once five or more members live locally.

Which city?

Is there anything else you would like us to know? Optional. This is your space.

Section five

Before you send.

Itsuki is built on trust. Please read what that means in practice — and confirm your commitment to it.

Membership of Itsuki Society is personal and curated. It is yours alone — it cannot be transferred or shared.

What is said within this community stays within this community. You agree not to share another member's words, stories or contact details outside Itsuki.

We ask every member to show up with honesty, kindness and respect — for different opinions, different chapters and different ways of living. No unsolicited selling, recruitment or competition.

Membership fees are non-refundable unless required by law. If your membership renews automatically, cancellation terms will be communicated clearly at the time of joining.

Itsuki is not a medical, legal, financial or psychological service. Any decisions you make based on conversations, resources or introductions within the community are your own responsibility.

I understand that everything shared within Itsuki Society is confidential, and I commit to holding it with care. *

I agree to engage with honesty and kindness, without judgement, unsolicited advice or competition. *

I have read and agree to the full Membership Terms & Community Agreement below. *

I consent to Itsuki Society storing and using my information to process my application and communicate about my membership. I can withdraw this at any time. *

Please confirm all commitments to continue.

Membership Terms & Community Agreement. Last updated: [Date]

Welcome to Itsuki Society. Itsuki is a private membership community for women aged 35 and over, created by Raluca Harabagiu and Iulia Stănescu around meaningful connection, curiosity, shared experiences and discovering new possibilities. These Membership Terms & Community Agreement explain what membership includes, how the community works, and the responsibilities that come with being part of Itsuki. By purchasing or accepting an Itsuki membership, you agree to these terms and to the Itsuki Community Code.

1. What membership includes

Depending on the membership plan you choose, Itsuki may provide access to some or all of the following: the Itsuki member community; member-only conversations and spaces; curated events and gatherings; talks, workshops and experiences; access to selected guest experts and contributors; editorial content, recommendations and resources; member introductions and connection opportunities; special offers or experiences from selected partners; and other benefits communicated as part of your membership plan.

The specific benefits included in each membership are described at the time of joining. Itsuki may evolve its programme, events, resources, partners and member benefits over time. Membership provides access to the Itsuki experience. It does not guarantee a particular number of introductions, invitations, collaborations, business opportunities, friendships, professional outcomes or other personal results.

2. Itsuki is a curated community

Membership is subject to application and approval, where applicable, and is personal to the approved member. We reserve the right to decline an application or to suspend or terminate a membership where we believe this is necessary to protect the trust, safety, integrity or overall experience of the community. Membership cannot be transferred, sold, shared or used by another person.

3. The community

Members are expected to: treat other members, guests, partners and the Itsuki team with respect; respect different opinions, experiences, backgrounds and ways of living; participate honestly and in good faith; respect personal boundaries and people's time; avoid harassment, discrimination, intimidation or deliberately harmful behaviour; avoid using Itsuki primarily for unsolicited selling, recruitment or self-promotion; and respect the Itsuki Community Code.

There is no expectation that every woman will participate in the same way.

4. Confidentiality & trust

Members agree not to share outside the community personal stories, private conversations, contact details, screenshots or other information that another member has shared in confidence. Members may not record, photograph, publish or distribute private community conversations or gatherings without permission. Itsuki cannot guarantee that another member will always respect these expectations — members should use their own judgement when deciding what personal information to share. Where a serious concern involving safety or legal obligations arises, Itsuki may take appropriate action or disclose information where required by law.

5. Connections & introductions

An introduction does not guarantee that a relationship, friendship, collaboration or business opportunity will follow. Members are responsible for their own interactions and relationships with other members. Please respect another member's decision not to continue a conversation, introduction or relationship.

6. Experts, contributors & partners

Their opinions, advice and services belong to them and are not necessarily the views of Itsuki or its founders. Itsuki does not guarantee the accuracy, suitability or outcome of information or services provided by an independent contributor. Itsuki is not a medical, psychological, legal or financial advisory service.

7. Content & member resources

Materials are provided for your personal use as an Itsuki member. You may not copy, reproduce, publish, distribute, resell, commercially exploit or share member-only materials outside the community without permission. All intellectual property remains with its respective owner.

8. Events & recordings

Where events are photographed, filmed or recorded, we will provide appropriate notice and, where required, obtain the relevant consent. Private conversations and member-only confidential discussions will not be recorded without appropriate notice and consent.

9. Membership fees & payment

By purchasing a membership, you agree to pay the applicable membership fee and any applicable taxes or charges. Where membership renews automatically, the renewal terms and price will be communicated before or at the time of purchase. Unless otherwise stated or required by applicable law, membership fees are non-refundable. If a payment fails or remains unpaid, Itsuki may suspend access until payment is received.

10. Cancellation

Cancellation terms depend on the membership plan you have purchased and will be communicated at the time of joining. Cancelling a membership does not normally entitle you to a refund for a period that has already begun, except where required by applicable law or expressly stated in the membership terms.

11. Suspension or termination

Itsuki may suspend or terminate a membership where a member seriously or repeatedly breaches these terms or the Community Code; breaches another member's privacy or confidentiality; harasses, threatens or deliberately harms another person; misuses member information or community access; uses Itsuki for inappropriate commercial activity; provides materially false information; fails to meet payment obligations; or engages in conduct that materially compromises the trust, safety or integrity of the community.

12. Your own decisions & responsibility

Any decision you make based on a conversation, recommendation, resource, introduction, event or expert contribution is your own decision. Itsuki does not guarantee personal, professional, financial, health, relationship or other outcomes from membership.

13. Our responsibility

We will make reasonable efforts to provide the membership benefits described at the time of purchase and to maintain a respectful and valuable community. We are not responsible for circumstances outside our reasonable control or for the independent actions, advice, services or conduct of members, experts, partners or other third parties. Nothing in these terms excludes or limits any liability that cannot legally be excluded or limited under applicable law.

14. Privacy

Itsuki's collection and use of personal data is governed by our Privacy Policy, which explains how we collect, use, store and protect your personal information.

15. Changes to these terms

We may update these terms from time to time. Where a change materially affects your membership or your rights, we will provide appropriate notice. The current version will always be available on the Itsuki website.

16. Acceptance

By purchasing or accepting an Itsuki membership, you confirm that you have read and agree to these Membership Terms & Community Agreement and the Itsuki Community Code. Itsuki is intentionally curated. We are not trying to create a community where every woman is the same. We are creating a circle where different women, different experiences and different chapters of life can meet with curiosity, generosity and respect.

Sign with your name By typing your name, you confirm your agreement to the terms above.

Your application is with us.

Thank you for sharing yourself so openly. We read every application personally and will be in touch within 48 hours.

The waitlist

Not quite ready to apply?

Some seasons ask for patience. Join the waitlist and you will be the first to hear when new places, city circles and experiences open. No pressure, no noise — only what matters.

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First name * Please enter your first name.

Email address * Please enter a valid email address.

Which membership interests you?

I agree to receive emails from Itsuki Society about places and experiences. I can unsubscribe at any time. *

Please confirm to join the waitlist.

You are on the waitlist.

Thank you. We will write to you as soon as a place opens.

Questions

Before you begin.

Who is Itsuki Society for?

For women aged 35 and over who are moving through a period of personal, professional or emotional reinvention — wherever they are in the world.

Why is membership by application?

Because the Society only works when every woman feels safe to be honest. Reading each application personally is how we protect that trust and keep conversations deep, respectful and real.

How long does it take to hear back?

We reply to every application within 48 hours.

What happens if I am placed on the waitlist?

Your application stays with us. There is nothing more you need to do — we will write to you as soon as a place opens in your chosen tier or city circle.

Can I change my membership tier later?

Yes. Each tier is complete in itself, and you can move deeper whenever the moment feels right.

Is what I share in my application confidential?

Yes. Your answers are read only by the founding team and used only to consider your application and communicate with you about membership, as set out in our Privacy Policy.

The fifth season is not an ending. It is a becoming.

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